“Hey dad, I messed up.”
“What did you do?”
“Well, I was speeding. I got a ticket.”
“Okay. Right. So what are we going to do about that? Let’s talk about it.”
When this happens, this is how I want it to go. I’m not going to snap at my sons. I’m not going to say, “How could you possibly do that?” I want to create a safe environment for dialogue with my kids. I want my kids to be able to talk to me without fear. There has to be discipline, but not in an angry way.
How about saying this? “Okay, son, well here’s the deal. If you get another speeding ticket, I’m going to have to take away your license for a little bit. You need to understand that it’s not good to get speeding tickets.”
I’m going to help them understand that I’m not giving discipline…
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